Varvara Ryabenko, Poltava: I left everything and took it as it is

I have been studying at the Personality Development Center for almost two years. After completing the basic level, about a month later, my husband told me: "When you go to study at the Natalia Rodina, then take me with you." I asked with surprise: "Why, because you are against me learning from her?" He tells me: "I will fall on my knees in front of her and I will thank her for the fact that the knowledge that she gives has changed you so that I can live peacefully with you." And he was right. In the family, for me, there were two opinions - mine and wrong.

 

This was probably one of the reasons why he became an alcoholic. It got to the point that binges lasted up to two weeks with short breaks of 4-6 days. During my studies, I tried very hard to follow all the advice and recommendations of Natalia Vladimirovna. The truth once gave him to listen to a fragment of a lecture on alcoholism from the live broadcast of Natalia Vladimirovna. But I saw the discontent on his face and felt his inner protest, although he did not say anything to me. I didn’t break the law of Free Will and the Right of Choice anymore. I left everything and accepted it as it is.

 

As time went on, I began to notice how quickly he was changing. He began to drink less, did not allow unpleasant statements about me, became very calm, tried to please me and please me with something. I used to think if I scold him and "nag", he will come to his senses. But it turned out quite the opposite. With my attacks and aggression, I forced him to become even worse. This went on for decades. We're not young anymore.

 

And in these less than two years, we both have changed. Isn't it a miracle? In this year 2021, he allowed himself to drink in January for his birthday and in July for 3-4 days and that's it. I am sure that he will completely and forever give up alcohol because I have transferred everything into the hands of our Father God. Thanks to studying at the CRL, I have changed dramatically. I am very grateful to God and our beloved teacher for finally bringing happiness, joy, peace, and love to our home.

 

Barbara, 4th Stage.